Women are mysterious creatures that possess unusual powers and qualities. Understanding them can be an exercise in futility. I have observed with great fascination what my folks can do in the name of love and I must say I've been amazed. It must be true what they say that "All a woman needs is Love" because in pursuit of Love women can do some if not all of these:
- Kiss all the toads before getting to the prince … yikes!
- Buy expensive clothes, perfumes and make-up to make their appearance pleasing to the one they love.
- Pretend they are enjoying the soccer game on TV or laugh at his stupid jokes and yet they are bored to death
- Put up with flat boring sex, fake orgasm and tell him he is great.
- Go on a diet or completely change their eating habits in order to have a great body for him.
- Go through various treatments such as Botox, facelift and plastic surgery in order to stay attractive for their men.
- Tolerate him when he is drunk and acting like a child
I could go on and on, but the point is, women can go through anything to keep the men in their lives, yet surprising enough men would never tolerate these things. It's either you meet their standards or they start looking elsewhere; maybe it's the male "hunter" hormones that drive them.
I have also observed some women putting up with a lot of physical, psychological and emotional abuse and have usually confused this with Love. In a lot of African cultures this abuse is considered a sign of love, for example a man can physically abuse his woman for having attracted male attention as if it is a sin to attract such attention. This is interpreted as Love because the belief is that being possessive is a sign of love. Some men also go to the extent of demanding that their women have their genitals mutilated in order to kill any form of libido. This is intended to ensure faithfulness in the women.
While others also believe in treating their women like minors, their voices are not supposed to be heard in the spirit of submission. This aspect emanates from the wrong interpretation of the bible in some Christian circles where Paul commanded women to submit to their husbands. This verse is taken out of context and parts of this chapter where men are instructed to Love their wives are conveniently ignored. Therefore women cannot demand love but have to work for it by submitting themselves to become doormats where all manner of abusive language is used against them. In the name of Love some women are cut off from family, friends and relatives and they tolerate this psychological abuse in the hope of pleasing their men who demand that they should not associate with other women. The major excuse employed in this case is that these women if exposed to others who are radical, they might be influenced against their men. Women who fall for this type of abuse often believe their men are wise, they are more experienced and that other women are after snatching their men. So the effect is that women end up not trusting each other enough, thus they cannot assist each other because they are all competing for the same men.
My observations have led me to conclude that women are their worst enemies and in order to overcome this enemy they need to start loving themselves more, trusting their instinct and their female friends and associates. Women need to determine what they really want and demand nothing less. They should also learn to walk away when their rights are being violated in the name of Love. These are my personal opinions and comments are welcome.
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